Wed 11 Jun 2008
Where to Spend Holidays
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It is a rather disruptive question whether it is better to go home for the holiday or to remain in the campus. Of course, holiday is an opportunity for the students to have a good rest at home, to taste home food, to sleep in the favorite bad, to meet parents and friends. However, as a rule, when you have spent some time at the campus, far away from your parents, and you have stopped to be a child, it will be rather difficult for you to stay at home.
You have to be aware of the fact that everyone is going to treat you like a child when you open the door of your home. At this point you have not to pay any attention at the mother’s words: do not forget to clean your teeth, or your best friend’s replica: you have changed a great deal.
Some psychologists advice to write a pre letter to your parents in which you should mention that you have changed a lot, and that you are not a little kid anymore, but a grown up personality who is ready to take care about herself or himself without any help.
If you did not want to answer this or that question about your private life – refuse; but do it in a polite way. You can even joke a little in order not to offend the interviewer. For example, tell that you have so many options that you are still choosing. Everybody will laugh, and you will not be blamed that you do not want to share with your private life.
Do not be offended that your mother is treating you like a small helpless child; you will remain a child for her even when you are going to be 35 years old.