Wed 11 Jun 2008
Do not Force your Child
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I think that when parents are pressing on the child to make the decision which college it is better to choose and which specialty it is better to enroll, they are just killing his or her personality. Of course, all the people are different, and what good for you is, may not be interesting to your child at all. At least, it is life of your child and not yours; you have already had an opportunity to make a choice, do not deprive your child of the chance to make a choice of his or her own.
Being parents, you have to help and support your child, but not to dictate what he or she has to do in order to pleaser your ambitions. It is not fare.
Provide your child with the necessary information, find a test at the career orientation, it will help him or her a lot to decide which occupation it is better to obtain.
I think that if you do not support your children’s choice, it means that you are not very good parents, and believe me, you will never have good relationship with your child, if you force him or her to enroll that very specialty, you want to. All your life your kid will be blaming you that you have spoiled his or her life and you will have nothing to answer as it is really going to be true.